修讀輔導碩士課程學生:我體會到真正的同理心和無條件的關愛,亦透過她的身教、讓我學會愛惜自己和尊重人的價值
每次經過大學圖書館門前的那棵大樹,也令我想起王玉梅 (Amoy Ong)老師 一直以來對我的愛護和鼓勵。
每次經過大學圖書館門前的那棵大樹,也令我想起王玉梅 (Amoy Ong)老師 一直以來對我的愛護和鼓勵。
I had spent all of my adult life, and a lot of my adolescent life trying desperately hard to change myself, to rid myself of all of my vices and shortcomings and those of my family and my upbringing.
年輕時, 很多時候我們遇到問題都不懂得怎麼去解決, 因為欠缺人生歷練及經驗, 這都是人之常情。而很多像我一樣的年輕人都會傾向把自己的問題”收埋收埋”, 卻不懂得去尋求別人協助。以前一向不信任別人的我就抱著一種只要把問題埋藏於心底, 便能擺脫它, 繼續自己的生活……
步入老齡化的香港,不少長者曾經歷過二次世界大戰、國共內戰、文化大革命、六七暴動等戰爭內亂和政治運動事件,亦曾見證過許多天然和人為的災害,當時面對着生存的艱難和死亡的威脅,今天看來已事過境遷,其實各種刻骨銘心的經歷,令長者內心深處依然潛藏莫名的傷痛。
The life expectancy of Hong Kong people is increasing. According to a survey from Japan, the average male life expectancy in Hong Kong is 82 years and the average female life expectancy is 88 years…
Amoy empowered me by giving me a relaxing, trusting and all-accepting atmosphere to dig deep into my memory and divulge a long-suppressed trauma of early childhood to myself. It kicked off the healing process, with valuable help from Amoy. She taught me useful techniques to handle the emotional turmoils whenever the traumatic memory resurfaces.